It’s Been An Intresting Ride…..
It’s been an interesting ride, but I think my relationship with my eharmony Boo is coming to an end. I want a relationship with a women that will not consume my life 24/7. Sadly, she consumes my life 24/7. She is wickedly too needy and wickedly too selfish. The needy part I can deal with but the selfishness… I can’t. Being selfish myself, we just clash.
Example: A few weeks ago I had walking pneumonia. I didn’t realize it yet, this was the day before I went to the doctor. I was sick as a dog. Fever, Coughing, Phlegm spewing left and right, the whole nine yards. As I laid in bed swimming in my own sweat and phlegm she actually asked me to drive her to her masseuse so she could get her two hour massage. On top of that she wanted me to wait for her at the local Barnes and Noble. Un-fucking believable. Naturally I called her on it, and she apologised instantly, but just the fact that she would even think of it….. Royal Red Flag..
Now that should have been the topper, but not for me, abuse me a little more please.
She’s a big American Idol fan. The first night it was on, I was at home and we were texting each other back and forth all through out the show. All was good. The next day she called me too discuss an upcoming trip to Las Vegas for her daughters tournament. Conversations have been going back and forth for a while about this. With my Divorce and everything I wasn’t sure I had the $800.0 -$1000.00 to blow on it. I made my decision to be financially frugal and I told her I wasn’t going to go. I want to spend my money on my boy. So that night, the second episode of American Idol comes on. I start texting her like I did the night before. No response to any of my texts. I call her after the show and she doesn’t answer. She calls me back 30 minutes later. During our conversation she asks me if it’s OK if she goes to Las Vegas with her ex-husband. WTF??
I tell her, “sure, go ahead, I have no problems with it”. Because I don’t. Why you ask? Because I’m breaking up with her needy, selfish ass this weekend.
OK, maybe that was a little mean, but it’s true… I could have phrased it better though.
Bottom line, she’s sucking the life out of me.. She’s a super cool chick, but the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship needs to come to an end.
My goal is too end this relationship in a mature way. How I’m going to do it, I haven’t a clue. But I’m going to do it the right way..
But what is the right way? Anyone have any suggestions???
