Things are Mellow in the Land of Divorce
At the moment things are mellow in the household. She is still inept, she’s still a pig, I still have a hard time understanding how easy it is for her to just walk away, but.. Whatever.. I’m glad I started this blog, it is truly great therapy..
We had a good talk about a week ago. It was all her lying that was really bothering me, so I let her know. She said she was lying because she didn’t want to hurt me. She thought by her telling me she was doing this or that with Joe would upset me. Understandable, I bought into it, but if we’re going to be housemates for the next 10 months, the deception must go. It did, at least I think it did. I’m a happier camper now, that’s for sure.
She opened up to me, at least to the point she felt comfortable, and told me all about her & Joes plans. There initial plan is to not even let the Divorce papers get cold. They want to get married right away and buy a house. Right away? That’s a big mistake, the epitome of ineptness. They only spend their work time together, and until recently, they spend Saturday days together. They haven’t even spent the night together. I only know that because she’s home every night irritating me. We talked about it, I tried not to come off as the spiteful ex, I explained to her that maybe they should live together for awhile before they jump into Marriage. We were married for 20 years, but we lived together for five years before we got married. I went into the statistics about jumping from one relationship right into another and how the odds aren’t that good, statistically. If she really listened, who knows. During the conversation she expressed that Joe is very, very traditional. That explains why he wants to get married so quickly. He wants to tap that Asian ass of hers as soon as he can. He probably has already, but if he is really that transitional he hasn’t.
I’m glad we are getting a divorce. But I do worry about her, she’s not that swift, after all she married me…I feel like I’m watching a train wreck waiting to happen. I hope I’m wrong.
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